Relationships can be tough business. Whether you are in a current relationship or thinking about getting involved with someone you might find it helpful to ask yourself a few questions about the ONE!
You would like him/her to love you for your:
• Looks/body?
• Mind-The way you view life?
• You really don’t care because it’s just physical anyway.
If your answer is “it’s just physical” you can stop reading. This is about finding long lasting committed love.
What you should consider when looking for Mr. or Ms. Right?
• Cultural background- they may eat different foods, speak different languages, and have significant differences in cultural values.
• Compatibility/Interests- Let’s be honest, if he’s a couch potato and you are a mountain biker you might want to think twice about a relationship.
• Religion- It might not be a big deal in the beginning but religion can become a sticky problem when children come along.
• Mental health- In sickness and in health...sometimes easier said than done. Marriage is not easy to begin with, add the stressors of mental illness and you might find yourself in divorce court. Planning children? Keep in mind that genetics can be a factor in your child’s mental health as well.
“I don't necessarily want a divorce...just some space. Just some space to feel like my own person... someone not weighed down by mental illness 24/7.”
~ http://www.schizophrenia.com/blog20/
The #1 thing to remember when considering a potential partner is…
Acceptance
“Don’t worry mom! He/she won’t do that when we get married”
You can’t change another person and you have no right to try to change your partner. Don’t promise to change if your potential partner can’t accept you as you are.
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